Make Proper End-Of-Life Plans in Virginia Today

End"I can't tell you how many times I've seen people not get what they want because the patient did not adequately share their wishes," says Fern Baudo, a nurse who is president of Fern Baudo Adult Health Nurse Practitioner PC, which helps clients with their advance care planning.

Planning for your end-of-life decisions, let alone coming to terms with the important questions your family will face, can be a difficult process. Fortunately, you can ease the process for all concerned through proper basic legal planning.  So, have you executed your medical directive or living will? Was it one you created yourself or downloaded from the internet? If yes, you might want to reconsider that move while you can.

Bloomberg published an article titled “The Right Way to Craft a Living Will” that discouraged taking the self-help approach to this fundamental component of your estate planning. It is important to know there is a “right way to craft a living will” and it does involve more than simply signing on the dotted line of a pre-printed form.

Essentially, there may come a time when you are not “available” to make a medical decision – from resuscitation to feeding tubes to what-have-you. What happens then will depend, in large part, on how clear your instructions are. There are some definite shortcomings that can arise, particularly with those free forms you pick up online.

A medical directive or living will is designed to speak for you and be some kind of arbiter. Of course, you can only have so much forethought and the language used in any document can only be so clear. For example, the original article illustrates the complex issues surrounding the word “terminal.”

Given the difficultly attending the whole notion of predicting the course of your future health, consider appointing a trusted family member or friend to be your health care agent to make the decisions when you cannot. That way you are not merely trusting a piece of paper and the interpretation of the same.

Whatever legal arrangements prove to be the most powerful or expedient, the basic truth is that any plan can be put to paper. However, to be truly effective the contents of the plan on that paper and your specific wishes need to be communicated to the people who will be part of the process.   Make sure your loved ones know what your wishes are and that they will work to ensure that they are honored.

You can learn more about this topic as well as other strategies on our website under the tab entitled: estate planning in Virginia. Be sure you also sign up for our complimentary e-newsletter so that you may be informed of all the latest issues that could affect you, your loved ones and your estate planning.

Reference: Bloomberg (April 9, 2013) “The Right Way to Craft a Living Will


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