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Make Your New Family the Perfect Blend

Blended familiesThe Pew Research Center reports that four in ten American adults have at least one step-relative, defined as a stepparent, a step-or-half sibling or a stepchild, in their family. While the Pew study says that many step-families operate harmoniously, it also notes that adults “feel a stronger sense of obligation to their biological family members than they do to their step kin.” That is one reason why blended family finances can get so messy. 

Couples planning to blend families typically need to work out financial arrangements that take into account previous relationships with ex-spouses and their families. Things can get complicated quite quickly, so you should speak with an experienced estate planning attorney. 

The Kenyon Leadergives us a nice checklist of issues and solutions potential spouses and partners should consider in a recent article titled Yours, mine and ours: planning step-family finances. 

Couples planning step-families, more than those marrying for the first time, need to share personal information with a potential impact on finances. 

Start with these steps: 

  • Current credit reports and credit scores. Significant loans, large amounts of debt, or bad credit for one or both partners can hinder future major purchases. 
  • Assets and liabilities. Both spouses should know each other’s financial assets and liabilities and any potential issues. Are there any debt and credit problems? What if one spouse has more extensive assets? Be sure to discuss how those will be addressed now and later when one or both spouses pass on. 
  • Legal issues. Disclose any issues involving divorce, child custody, foreclosure, bankruptcy, or other legal proceedings that are pending against either partner or family members. 
  • Business and estate issues. If there are significant estate or business assets assigned to children, former spouses, or family members, those commitments need to be considered in the context of the finances of the planned marriage or partnership. 

Get some professional expertise. Beyond this, it’s essential to have qualified professionals who have specific expertise with blended families and their unique issues. 

Make a new estate plan. This is a perfect time to review money issues, even if you have your own separate estate matters in order. Step-family issues restart the planning clock on everything. You may have a great retirement all set, but if your future spouse hasn’t, you’ll need to review your strategies so you can retire comfortably together.   Money issues complicate all relationships, but step-families have their own special planning needs that should be discussed and settled before the marriage and not thereafter. 

You can learn more about this topic as well as other strategies on our website under the tab entitled: estate planning in Virginia. Be sure you also sign up for our complimentary e-newsletter so that you may be informed of all the latest issues that could affect you, your loved ones and your estate planning. 

Resource: The Kenyon (MN) Leader (December 29, 2014) Yours, mine and ours: planning step-family finances

 

 

 

 

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