The Cost Of Caring For Elderly Loved Ones in Virginia


Faced with the high cost of in-home care, many Americans end up providing care themselves for an aging parent or relative with a chronic condition. But by doing so, you may be putting your own finances, and even your health, at risk.

For more and more baby boomers, taking care of elderly parents is increasingly important and often necessary. For an increasingly large portion of the population, then, the true costs of caring for an aging relative are fairly crucial to understand now more than ever before.

This math of the matter was the subject of an article in The New York Times titled “Assessing the Costs of Caring for an Aging Relative.” Bottom line: you do what you have to for the people you love. On the other hand, elder care can have some serious and unforeseen costs, some strictly for care and some in lost income or professional mobility.

Aside from dollars, there are the “costs” in terms of the caregiver’s health, too.

The original article lays out some of the facts, but the key considerations to master are the basic questions: What do you need to do? What can you do? And what can your elderly loved one do to plan ahead?

If you and your loved one are planning early instead of reacting to a crisis, then there are many steps you can take. For many, it will mean gaining a firm understanding of Medicare and Medicaid, none-too-simple topics in and of themselves. For others, there still may be the option of long-term care insurance. 

Caring for a loved one is still an important option for most, those giving the care and those receiving the care. Indeed, such care is perhaps cheaper and more meaningful than nursing home care.

Whatever route you and your elderly loved one elect to take, be sure you weigh all of the rewards and risks carefully before committing to any course of care.

You can learn more about this topic as well as other strategies on our website under
the tab entitled: elder law planning in Virginia .  Be sure you also sign up for our complimentary e-newsletter so that you may be informed of all the latest issues that could affect you, your loved ones and your estate planning.


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