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Why We Fight Over ‘Stuff’?

Fighting over stuffIn all areas of life, people fight over seemingly petty things. In legal matters, people who are already at odds over something important, will often fight more over something small. That might be the case in the fight over Robin Williams' estate.

Every divorce lawyer has a story or two about a couple that fought bitterly over who would get some inconsequential items, such as a small collection of Elvis decanters or a 10 year old lawnmower. The real fight, of course, is not about those items.

The stuff being fought over serves as a proxy because the parties are angry with each other and want to fight over something. The same thing happens in estate law when heirs do not get along and resent each other. The heirs will fight over those very same Elvis decanters.

However, in estate law these battles do not make it to court as often as they do in divorce law because divorcing couples are already in court. Most of the time heirs feuding over junk find it cost prohibitive to hire attorneys. Robin Williams' estate might be an exception.

His personal property might be valuable to collectors. So even though the real reason his heirs are fighting is probably not out of any great desire to have his bicycle collection or books, those items are issues in his estate. Issues that the court might have to settle were recently the subject of an ABC7 report titled "Robin Williams’ Bikes Are An Issue In Estate Battle."

What does this means for estate planning purposes? If you suspect your heirs might have lingering disputes with each other, then it is a good idea to spell out who gets what property as specifically as possible. While you think there is nothing worth fighting over, any heirs who have a bone to pick may pick a fight over your “stuff” after you are gone.

Contact an estate planning attorney to help you avoid (and prevent) petty feuds over your estate. You can learn more about this topic as well as other strategies on our website under the tab entitled: estate planning in Virginia. Be sure you also sign up for our complimentary e-newsletter so that you may be informed of all the latest issues that could affect you, your loved ones and your estate planning.  However, proper estate planning is not a do-it-yourself project.  Why not call us for a complimentary consultation at 757-259-0707.

Reference: ABC7 (August 28, 2015) "Robin Williams Bikes Are An Issue In Estate Battle."

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